In your life you are the star. Sometimes we forget to shine

It’s easy to shine when you get out of your own way. Stop paying attention to the “shoulds” other people are so quick to share. Pay attention, instead, to the truth that is you — your inner wisdom and beauty. . Enjoy and SHINE ON! Top 10 Tickets to Stardom Are you ready to have that big break? See your name in lights? Or … Read more »

Who Can Relate To Passion Fatigue?

Have you ever said, “I just don’t feel passionate or inspired about anything any more.” What happens sometimes is that the duty, responsibility, the grind, being overworked and sometimes under-acknowledged takes its toll and you are suddenly feeling burnt out – ticked off, or just plain tired and exhausted. Passion is not out there somewhere hiding waiting to be found. Instead it comes from inside. Developing the ability to recognize and feel passion is necessary in order to experience. It’s power to transform and improve our lives. That’s half of it. IT IS IMPORTANT THAT THERE IS no separation out in the world WITH WHAT YOU DO AND WHO YOUR ARE. … Read more »

Life Is Like a Dance

“Life is a dance, you learn as you go. Sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow. Don’t worry that you don’t know, you learn as you go.” Above are lyrics from a song. I liked it because it made me think, life is like a dance which I love to do. Life is like a dance, sometimes we know the steps and sometimes we make them up. Sometimes we follow the music and sometimes we make up our own tune. Sometimes we get our toes stepped on and sometimes we step on others toes. Sometimes we slow dance and sometimes we fast dance. There are even times … Read more »

Do Others Know You Changed?

Change is a process and doesn’t always come easy. When we grow and discover who we are it can be uncomfortable. However, we are not the only ones that need to adjust to our changes. Those around us may resist the changes we are making. When we change, the people in our lives can become confused. They are used to us being a certain way and they may be upset by the differences they are seeing in us. This is normal and with understanding and communication can usually be dealt with. There are times when change will mean that what worked in the past for us no longer works. This … Read more »

The Alternative to Growing Old

I don’t understand why people are so upset about growing older. Growing older is such fun, watching the twist and turns life takes. Even if I could I wouldn’t go back to being younger. Life just keeps getting better. I do remember when I dreaded getting older. I thought turning 50 was the worst thing that could ever happen to me. It wasn’t. What I learned is that growing older beats the alternative, and the alternative, dying, is going to come sooner than later; so why waste it worrying about something we can’t prevent. Why not enjoy each year, each day, each moment to the fullest. If you … Read more »

A Leopard Never Changes Its Spots

My mother use to say, “A Leopard never changes it spots” to mean that people do not change. I use to think this was true. However, now I realize that is isn’t true at all. People change all the time. We can’t help but to change through our life experiences. Now if someone makes a choice not to change, that is another story; they might want their spots to stay the same. But how sad not to grow into the full potential of whom we are.   Not to change means we don’t grow, develop, or mature; we simply remain stagnant. One of the saddest things I ever heard … Read more »